Tuesday, August 4, 2015

Make-Morphosis

Well-- when I think about Makeovers--the only thing that comes to my mind is Metamorphisn--(not in the true sense of the term though, coz I am not talking about Metamorphic rocks whatsoever)--this is just a way to augment your Beauty--the Beauty that defines you, and having said that, 
--Persona is the foremost thing that precedes your superficial beauty.

Just to relate to this statement, I remember one answer by noted Industrialist and multi-millionaire Mukesh ambani --

A dating/matrimony site drafted a question about a girl who looked beautiful, and wanted to marry a guy having Rs. 100 Cr annual income--and I repeat its Rs 100 cr annual income. 
The best one she dated was having half its worth with annual income of Rs 50 cr, with which she was insatiable.
A penetrating reply from Mukesh Ambani was--

"From the standpoint of a business person, it is a bad decision to marry you. The answer is very simple, so let me explain.Put the details aside, what you’re trying to do is an exchange of “beauty” and “money” : Person A provides beauty, and Person B pays for it, fair and square.However, there’s a deadly problem here, your beauty will fade, but my money will not be gone without any good reason. The fact is, my income might increase from year to year, but you can’t be prettier year after year...thus from the view point of Economics.. I am an appreciation asset, while you are a Depreciation Asset"

Thus persona wins over Beauty.. if originally Makeover  has to be focussed, it should be bent on changing some Inner perspectives which might help you in the Long run
--Change is Good, always if Better.
Mukesh Ambani adds--" you can make yourself to become a rich person with 100 crore annual income.This has better chance than finding a rich fool-"--puts a Full stop to all apprehensions thus.

I still remember me in school when I had boys cut hair, use to wear Black frame specs and was completely absorbed in studies (well I live studies now as well, books are my First Love, still was never boring ); But I always had this strong penchant to augment my looks.. 
Thus when I got into Presidency College, Kolkata--I gave myself a chance, a chance to rejuvenate, a chance to embellish my extrinsic considerations :)

And I dealt with it so well, that a friend of mine was unable to recognize me when I chanced upon her after a couple of years leaving school.

But what about the inner-self, the soul--Does it change? 
Well, many would say it does not--I say it does. And I am happy that no matter whatever ups and downs I have seen in my life, I have garnered enough courage to incorporate the superior features in the respective places they are supposed to be. 

It is a sole settlement to determine, What to use and how to use when your events from life are taken into considerations.

When i look back now, the girl I was some 4-5 years back have actually moulded me into the Woman I am today. 

Thus Make-overs should not be something 'just for the sake' when u see people around you in a different way, and you want to get them for yourself in either way or other. 

It should only enhance your Inner magnificence when you have taken an affirmative view about life--when you have a optimist feeling about the small considerations of life; when you are obese, you Makeover your lifestyle and start staying healthy; when you are undisciplined, you start putting all those things in proper places they are supposed to be.

Do not thing you are Ugly, never a being is created UGLY by God-- (or by that ova-sperm interaction whichever way u think about it)--Consider those people who look good, speak good, but have a crooked thinking, Yes THEY ARE UGLY.
Juxtapose them with a girl who is a victim of acid attack and having lost all her External manifestations about beauty--still confides in herself a strong soul, a willpower.

Our life does not gets better by Chance--it gets better by Change.. Thus drive the change for better in you.. and you will always be on top of the World.

You need to take choice to make the chance, and you life ought to but change. 


Hence next time, whenever you count all those beautiful things on Earth, never forget to count yourself in :)

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